Synopsis of Bucket List and It's Moral Value

The movie start when Charter get telephone from someone,a doctor of famous hospital.He is told that he get cancer.So,he hold off phone.In other place,there is a meeting and all member of meeting is waiting for the owner of hospital to talk.But he just drink Luwak Coffee,best Coffee in the world from Sumatra.After that,he start to talk,but he vomiting of blood.He be carried to his own hospital,he got cancer too.After arrive in his room,he meets Carter.Day by day,they be good roommate,Edward had an operation but none visit Edward,only his personal valet who visit him.His personal valet name is Thomas.Edward makes Thomas and his doctor,Morrow to serve Carter as well as him.

They become so chumy,they often play card and watch television together.One day,Charter write a “bucket list”,bucket list contains things that he wants to do before he kicks the bucket or die.But,he thinks that all of that is impossible because his life is short,so he throw away that list.In the morning,Thomas put the list give it to Edward,he tell Carter to do all on the list.He suggesting to add skydiving to the list.He offers to finance the trip.Carter thinks of that and he agree,he tell his wife,Virginia that he will take a trip,although his wife disagree,they steady take a trip.

One by one,the list is crossed off,but there is thing that unfinished to do,Carter  die,he request Edward to finish their bucket list without him and Edward must finish that for him.Edward agree.In the end of movie,Thomas bring edward’s ashes to the top of Himalaya mountain.He places that alongside a can that containing of Charter’s ashes.Then,he crosses off the last thing on the bucket list,witness something truly majestic and places that beside them.

The messages of the bucket list movie are life is not enjoy while you can and fit in all you can, live your dreams and don’t die with any regrets, always tie up loose ends and make it up with people you love rather than have them live a life with sadness due to the fact that they didn’t make it up with you.
Enjoy your life your only here once and if you can make other peoples lives happier.Never leave the ones you love most, enjoy life while you can do what you want to do for you never know when you will die.

I think this movie is good,this movie make me realize that I should enjoy my life.beside that,I should brought joy to other people.This movieis so inspirate my life!!

Sleeping Beauty

 Buat temen2 yg dapet tugas dari guru tentang sleeping beauty story , ato buat yg penasaran sama

ceritanya .Aku kasih tau nih ceritanya,dijamin seru.

In a far far away land, long ago, lived a king and his fair queen. Many years had they longed for

child and finally their wish was granted.

A daughter was born, and they called her Aurora. Yes, they named her after the dawn for she

filled their lives with sunshine.

And our story begins on that most joyful day.

Thus on this great and joyous day did all the  kingdom celebrate the long awaited royal birth.

And good King Stefan and his Queen made welcome their life long friend

 

There were three good fairies who visited by King and Queen  in the royal birthday.

Mistress Flora, mistress Fauna, and mistress Merryweather. 

Fairies:

  (at the cradle)
  Oh, the little darling!
  (to the king)
  Your majesties...

*to the point aja ya, udah ngantuk nih ngerjainnya

They gave some special gift for Aurora.

 

Flora:   Each of us the child may bless with a single gift. 

  No more, no less. (at the cradle)
  Little princess, my gift shall be the gift of beauty.

Fauna:
  Tiny princess, my gift shall be the gift of song.

Merryweather:
  Sweet princess, my gift shall be ...

 

Unfortunately King and Queen forgot to invite one of them,

Maleficent who was a bit of a witch as well.

 

A blow of the wind, the door of the castle swings open.  Lightning and thunder.

  Maleficent came with her anger because she didn’t invited.

Then she cursed Aurora.

Maleficent:

    Listen well, all of you! The princess shall indeed grow in grace and beauty, beloved by all who know her. But, before the sun sets on her sixteenth birthday, she shall prick her finger on the spindle of a spinning wheel and die.

 

"Oh, no!" screamed the Queen in horror.

  A good fairy quickly chanted a magic spell to change the curse. When she hurt herself, the girl would fall into a very deep sleep instead of dying.

•

The years went by, the little Princess grew and became the most beautiful girl in the whole kingdom.

  Her mother was always very careful to keep her away from spindles, but the Princess, on her sixteenth birthday, as she wandered through the castle, came into a room where an old servant was spinning.

"What are you doing?" she asked the servant.

  "I'm spinning. Haven't you seen a spindle before?"

  "No. Let me see it!" The servant handed the girl the spindle ... and she pricked herself with it and. with a sigh, dropped to the floor.

•

    The terrified old woman hurried to tell the Queen. Beside herself with anguish, the Queen did her best to awaken her daughter but in vain. The court doctors and wizards were called, but there was nothing they could do. The girl could not be wakened from her deep sleep. The good fairy who managed to avoid the worst of the curse came too,

"When will my daughter waken?"

"I don't know," the fairy admitted sadly.

"In a year's time, ten years or twenty?" the Queen went on.

"Maybe in a hundred years' time. Who knows?" said the fairy.

"Oh! What would make her waken?" asked the Queen weeping.

Finally, all of them slept in the castle.

  The years sped past. In the castle grounds, the trees grew tall. The bushes became thick and straggling, the grass invaded the courtyards and the creepers spread up the walls. In a hundred years, a dense forest grew up.

 

Now, it so happened that a Prince arrived in these parts. He was the son of a king in a country close by.

  Young, handsome and melancholy, he sought in solitude everything he could not find in the company of other men: serenity, sincerity and purity.

Wandering on his trusty steed he arrived, one day, at the dark forest. Being adventurous, he decided to explore it. He made his way through slowly and with a struggle, for the trees and bushes grew in a thick tangle.

 

In the middle way,  he met the dragon.

He killed the dragon who guard the dark forest

•

"I wonder who this castle belongs to?" he thought.

  The young Prince rode on towards the castle. The drawbridge was down and, holding his horse by the reins, he crossed over it. Immediately he saw the inhabitants draped all over the steps, the halls and courtyards, and said to himself,

  "Good heavens! They're dead!" But in a moment, he realised that they were sound asleep. "Wake up! Wake up!" he shouted, but nobody moved. 

Still thoroughly astonished, he went into the castle and again discovered more people, lying fast asleep on the floor.

    

  As though led by a hand in the complete silence, the Prince finally reached the room where the beautiful Princess lay fast asleep.

    

  For a long time he stood gazing at her face, so full of serenity, so peaceful, lovely and pure, and he felt spring to his heart that love he had always been searching for and never found. Overcome by emotion, he went close, lifted the girl's little white hand and gently kissed it . . . 

At that kiss, the princess quickly opened her eyes, and wakening from her long long sleep, seeing the Prince beside her, murmured:

  "Oh, you have come at last! I was waiting for you in my dream. I've waited so long!"

 

 

Just then, the spell was broken. The Princess rose to her feet, holding out her hand to the Prince. And the whole castle woke up too.

    Everybody rose to their feet and they all stared round in amazement, wondering what had happened. When they finally realised, they rushed to the Princess, more beautiful and happier then ever.

 

A few days later, the castle that only a short time before had lain in silence, now rang with the sound of singing, music and happy laughter at the great party given in honour of the Prince and Princess, who were getting married.

  They lived happily ever after, as they always do in fairy tales, not quite so often, however, in real life.

MENGENAL BAHASA TUBUH
Mungkin kalian bertanya-tanya apa itu bahasa tubuh?apa manfaat dan fungsi mempelajari bahasa tubuh?apa saja jenis dan bentuk bahasa tubuh?bagaimana cara memahami bahasa tubuh dengan benar?bagaimana cara ataupun kiat-kiat memperbaiki bahasa tubuh yang kurang baik?atau mungkin juga anda bertanya, bisakah mengetahui orang berbohong melalui bahasa tubuh?hmmm….bisakah membaca pikiran melalui bahasa tubuh?dsb,jika saya tulis semua pertanyaan2 yang mungkin ada dibenak kalian semua…pasti kalian akan bosan membacanya..
Untuk menjawab berbagai pertanyaan yang menghantui pikiran kalian itu*hahaha*. Kali ini saya akan membahas mengenai bahasa tubuh secara…yah bisa di bilang singkat dan jelas…saya pernah membaca buku yang berjudul ”tips mudah membaca pikiran orang melalui bahasa tubuh” karangan Aldeysa J. Pranowo*saya g mau dibilang plagiat/copas,pelanggar hak cipta,dsb..jadi saya tulis itu*..dan disini saya akan menambahkan beberapa kalimat untuk memudahkan kalian mengenal bahasa tubuh.
Pengertian bahasa tubuh
Mungkin ungkapan dari Sigmund Freud berikut ini sanagt cocok untuk bhasa tbuh.

“Tidak ada manusia yang bisa menyimpan rahasia.bila bibirnya diam, iaakan berceloteh dengan ujung jarinya.rahasia terbersit seluruh pori-pori kulitnya”.

Bahasa tubuh yang dikenal dg body language adalah komunikasi nonverbal yang tidak bisa berbohong/menipu dan sering dilakukan tanpa sadar*kayak otot polos aja ya…hahaha*
Manfaat mempelajari bahasa tubuh
Langsung aja ya..tanpa berbelit-belit lagi..
a. Mengetahui suasana hati,kepribadian orang “bahkan” sebelum dia mengatakan apapun
b. Mendeteksi kebohongan manusia
c. Menemukan/berkencan dengan orang yang sesuai tipe anda
d. Meningkatkan karir dan hubungan kerja anada
e. Meningkatkan rasa percaya diri
f. Mengendalikan situasi setiap berinteraksi
g. Mendapatkan kesan pertama yang memukau
h. Lihai dalam wawancara kerja
i. Membaca pikiran dan emosi orang
j. Menjadi pembicara yang luar biasa
Fungsi bahasa tubuh
Menyatakan emosi
Misalnya: jika anda mendapat juara kelas,anda tersenym dan sontak berkata”YES”
Menopang teks dan penjelasan
Misalnya: bila anda sedang memberi motivasi pada teman anda, anda berkata “SEMANGAT” dan disertai kepalan tangan..tidak mungkin kan anda berkata demikian tapi disertai muka lesu*coba bayangkan dulu*
Mengatur dalam berkomunikasi
Misalnya:anda melihat teman anda sedih,namun ketika anda mendekati dia…dengan cepat dia mengembangkan senyumnya..hal ini mengisyaratkan dia menyembunyikan kesedihannya.
Pengaruh timbal balik
Misalnya:jika seorang presentator menjelaskan suatu hal,ada beberapa prilaku timbal balik, seperti menarik badan ke depan,tersenyum,memegang dagu,atau memandang keluar
Membuka ruang komunikasi pribadi
Suasana yang sepi,tenang akan membuka ruang komunikasi anda, sebaliknya di tempat yang ramai,anda akan sulit mengatakan maksud dan tujuananda.
Bentuk bahasa tubuh
a.Kontak mata
b.ekspresi wajah
c.gesture(gerakan tangan,bahu,jari,dsb)
Jenis bahasa tubuh
a. Positif
Misalnya: mendengar dg seksama,wajah tersenyum,mata fokus pada lawan bicara,suara tegas dan keras.
b. Netral
Misal: badan di condongkan ke belakang,nada suara datar tanpa intonasi,mendekap kedua tangan
c. Negatif
Misal: sikap berdiri maupun duduk menjauh dari pembicara,pandangan mata beralih ke arah lain
Cara memahami bahasa tubuh yang benar
Yang “harus” diperhatikan dalam membaca tubuh seseorang adalah 3K,yaitu:
a. Konteks
Anda harus melihat konteks yang menyebabkan suatu prilaku muncul.misalnya : seseorang menutup mulutnya,anda jangan langsung menafsirkan sesuatu yang negatif.mungkin saja dia sedang sariawan.
b. Kongruen
Kita harusnya melihat apakah perkataan seuai dengan tindakan yg dilakukannya.misalnya: org yg mendekap k2 tangannya dan berulang kali mendesah jelas dia sedang tidak menikmati suatu acara.
c. Kumpulan
Dalam mengartikan bahasa tubuh org lain tidak bisa hnya menggunakan 1 gerakan saja.anda harus memperhatikan gerakan2 tubuh lain yg menyertai 1 gerakan tsb.
Cara memperbaiki bahasa tubuh yang kurang baik
Perhatikan hal2 berikut ini untuk memperbaiki bhsa tubuh;
a. Tersenym & tertawa
b. Lakukan kontak mata
c. Jangan silangkan kaki dan tangan anda
d. Buat jarak antara k2 kaki anda
e. Duduk tegak
f. Condongkan badan,rileksasikan bahu anda
g. Hindari gerakan yg menunjukkn anda gelisah
Penyebab kegagalan dalam percakapan
a. Tidak mendengarkan*jujur saja, saya sering melakukan ini…hmmm..pengakuan*
b. Terlalu banyak bicara
c. Kehabisan topik untuk bibicarakan
d. Penyampaian yang kurang baik
e. Bicara hal2 aneh
f. Keinginan selalu benar*bisa dikatakan egois lah*
g. Membosankan
h. Tidak merespon dg baik

Mungkin segini aja penjelasan dari saya…yang bisa dibilang jauh dari sempurna..ya maklumlah manusia itu memang TAK ADA YANG SEMPURNA…semoga bisa membantu dan berguna bagi anda semua ya…semoga saja juga bisa memperoleh hasil yang lebih baik dari sebelumnya….

GOOD LUCK

referensi : pranowo A.J.2010.Tips Mudah Membaca Pikiran Orang Melalui Bahasa Tubuh.Yogyakarta:Media Lintas Aksara

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Program Pemisahan Sampah Belum Maksimal

Beberapa waktu lalu aku melihat bapak tukang sampah dikampusku.Dia mengumpulkan sampah2 dari bak kecil lalu dijadikan satu di karung yang lebih besar.Nah,dikampusku kan udah ada pemisahan sampah,organik,anorganik dan sampah plastik.orang-orang yang membuang sampah sudah memperhatikan hal itu..mereka membuang sampah mereka di tempat sesuai golongan sampah itu…Akan tetapi,hal itu menjadi sia-sia karena kekurang pahaman bapak tukang sampah..dia mencampur sampah-sampah itu dalam satu tempat yang sama.Sangat disayangkan..Andai saja pengelola kampus juga menyosialisasikan hal itu kepada bapak tukang sampah.Alangkah lebih baik dan efektif tentunya.

MLM (Multi Level Marketing)

Kali ini aku mau sharing nih soal MLM.Beberapa hari yang lalu aku diajak(bahasa MLM nya: diundang) temenku.Awalnya sih aku nggak ngerti kalo dia mau ngajak ke pertemuan MLM.Awalnya dia cuman sms “vit,ada kuliah nggak?yuk ikut sharing mahasiswa2 di jogja yuk”.waktu itu aku emang gak bisa soalnya ada kuliah pengganti.Trus beberapa hari selanjutnya dia sms lagi “vit,besok aku mau presentasi nih,kamu mau ya jadi audience nya?”,aku dulu mikir,mungkin dia mau latihan presentasi biar hari H presentasinya bagus.lagipula aku nggak enak kalo harus nolak permintaannya lagi.yaudah aku bales ”Oke..”.Trus tibalah waktunya …jeng..jeng!!

Aku nyamperin dia di fakultasnya,trus dia bilang “aku nggak jadi presentasi vit,..aku gak enak badan”.Trus aku tanyain,”lhah trus ini jadi nggak?”.dia jawab”jadi kok”.Langsung aja capcus ke tempatnya,diperjalanan aku Tanya,”ntar acaranya ngapain sih,aku belum ngerti”.dia bilang”yaa,kayak seminar-seminar gitu”.

Akhirnya nyampe ke tempat tujuan,di depan ada HTM nya 5rb..aku udah ngrasa aneh.Seminar apa nih kok cuman bayar 5rb.Trus aku sama temenku masuk ruangan.Mulailah Presentasinya.Pada awal mbak yang bawain acara masuk.Ruangan langsung riuh,,pada tepuk tangan dengan meriah.Mulailah mbaknya buka dengan pertanyaan “bagaimana kabar anda?” semuanya(kecuali aku) jawab “baik!!!”dengan penuh semangat.Mbaknya melanjutkan “baik orangnya apa dompetnya?”lagi,semua jawab dengan serempak “dompetnya”.Aku merasakan lagi kejanggalan.kenapa jawabnya sama semua kayak udah dikontrol,diberi pelatihan gitu.Presentasinya terlihat menarik memang,semua pada tepuk tangan,tapi aku tidak sama sekali.Karena aku belum mengerti apa tujuan presentasi itu.Ditengah2 presentasi,mulailah dijelaskan mengenai kesuksesan yang mereka identikkan dengan materi.

Mereka mulai menawarkan produk china TI*NS,komunitas On* Vision yang akan mengajari tentang bisnis MLM,dan cara bergabung dengan komunitas itu.Tapi hal itu tidak lepas dari beberapa syarat seperti harus menanamkan modal minimal 2,3 juta,membeli 1 produk china tersebut dan harus mengonsumsinya.Nah,aku mulai tidak nyaman.Terasa seperti ditekan.

Setelah presentasi selesai,aku diajak makan dikantin bawah,aku mulai ngeles kalo udah punya nasi dikost.Tapi dia agak sedikit maksa dengan cara yang halus..”Bentar aja kok”.Nah,pas dikantin,aku disamperin sama mas2 yang kayaknya dibagian pemasaran.sebelumnya dia jabt tangan sama aku,gak ngerti deh dia nyoba ngehipnotis apa gak,jadi aku mencegah dengan maen HP,pas dia nanyain tadi presentasinya gimana tertarik sama yang mana,,aku Cuma jawab ngasal,tetep sama maenan HP,pokoknya jangan sampe terfokus sama dia ato MLM nya lah..suruh ngisiin no HP temen,aku isi ngasal tapi tetep digitnya harus dilogika biar gak ketahuan kalo ngasal.

Abis itu,kalo ada pertemuan2 lagi,aku nggak ikut,karena aku udah memutuskan nggak akan terlibat lagi di MLM soalnya aku pikir2 bisnisnya kelihatan gampang tapi sebenarnya rumit dan rawan penipuan.